just go! nevermind your fear of structures like that! you can cross that bridge when you get to it.
funny thing about phobias, they are way too hard to challenge. if you can find a way to cape cod first weekend of june to the next gathering (without crossing a bridge) try and make it there! may be a problem with that though i don;t know but welcome to the site and we have a dog here named cheech as well. lol